“Don’t get so caught up in building a successful life that you forget to build a life that feels right for you.”
That’s the advice Gunjan Pasari wishes more of us would hear, especially in cities that never stop moving.
Gunjan is originally from Kolkata, where her family still lives. Her journey has taken her across Delhi, Gurgaon, and now Bangalore, and each city has added something: new cultures, new people, and new ways of seeing herself. She completed her graduation at Loreto College in Kolkata, then moved to Delhi to earn her degree in Special Needs Education.
Her path into the field began with a simple desire to make a real difference in children’s lives. Over time, she realised that learning is never one-size-fits-all, and that every child deserves an approach that sees their strengths, their challenges, and their potential.
Today, she works independently as a Special Educator, supporting children with autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and other learning differences, while guiding parents to understand their child’s needs. Her work goes far beyond academics.
She helps children build confidence, independence, communication, and emotional regulation. What keeps her going is watching a child progress at their own pace, and the moment they begin to believe in themselves. Those small, quiet wins, she says, remind her why she chose this path.
Outside of work, she writes, travels, reads about psychology and philosophy, and takes part in theatre. Meditation has become a meaningful part of her life, helping her reconnect with herself and find balance.
In her words, there are no real errors in life. Sometimes the experiences we see as disappointments are simply redirecting us towards a different path. Living in different cities taught her adaptability and healthy boundaries, and she has learnt to trust life, even when it doesn’t go as planned.
Her biggest life lesson: learn to listen to yourself, your body, your needs, and what truly matters to you. In a city like Bangalore, where hustle culture is loud, it’s easy to chase the next goal without asking whether it’s the life you really want. A fulfilling life makes space for relationships, rest, growth, and joy, and there is no harm in seeking support along the way.
For Gunjan, work-life balance is about being fully present wherever you are. She gives her sessions her full heart, but when she travels or takes time off, she switches off. Far from her family, she has built friendships in Bangalore that feel like home.
She doesn’t have a rigid map for the future, and she’s perfectly comfortable with that. She wants to keep doing meaningful work, make a difference in the lives of the children and families she supports, and keep making space for travel, connection, and learning.
Gunjan is originally from Kolkata, where her family still lives. Her journey has taken her across Delhi, Gurgaon, and now Bangalore, and each city has added something: new cultures, new people, and new ways of seeing herself. She completed her graduation at Loreto College in Kolkata, then moved to Delhi to earn her degree in Special Needs Education.
Her path into the field began with a simple desire to make a real difference in children’s lives. Over time, she realised that learning is never one-size-fits-all, and that every child deserves an approach that sees their strengths, their challenges, and their potential.
Today, she works independently as a Special Educator, supporting children with autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and other learning differences, while guiding parents to understand their child’s needs. Her work goes far beyond academics.
She helps children build confidence, independence, communication, and emotional regulation. What keeps her going is watching a child progress at their own pace, and the moment they begin to believe in themselves. Those small, quiet wins, she says, remind her why she chose this path.
Outside of work, she writes, travels, reads about psychology and philosophy, and takes part in theatre. Meditation has become a meaningful part of her life, helping her reconnect with herself and find balance.
In her words, there are no real errors in life. Sometimes the experiences we see as disappointments are simply redirecting us towards a different path. Living in different cities taught her adaptability and healthy boundaries, and she has learnt to trust life, even when it doesn’t go as planned.
Her biggest life lesson: learn to listen to yourself, your body, your needs, and what truly matters to you. In a city like Bangalore, where hustle culture is loud, it’s easy to chase the next goal without asking whether it’s the life you really want. A fulfilling life makes space for relationships, rest, growth, and joy, and there is no harm in seeking support along the way.
For Gunjan, work-life balance is about being fully present wherever you are. She gives her sessions her full heart, but when she travels or takes time off, she switches off. Far from her family, she has built friendships in Bangalore that feel like home.
She doesn’t have a rigid map for the future, and she’s perfectly comfortable with that. She wants to keep doing meaningful work, make a difference in the lives of the children and families she supports, and keep making space for travel, connection, and learning.
This story was told by Gunjan Pasari and published with their permission by the What's Your Story editorial team.
